手足情深
<p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 125%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="center"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 125%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 125%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="center"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 125%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 125%; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="center"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 125%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">手足情深<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3">汪大纲<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><p><font size="3"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">在我们十姐弟中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我同二弟大绶年龄接近<span lang="EN-US">,</span>相处的时间最长<span lang="EN-US">,</span>有许多难忘的往事。今年他也七十岁了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>写一点回忆文字<span lang="EN-US">,</span>作为纪念<span lang="EN-US">,</span>并兼祝贺之意。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">大绶<span lang="EN-US">1935</span>年生于南京。那时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我在唸小学一年级。我们一家人当时过的是小康生活<span lang="EN-US">,</span>因为父亲工资较高<span lang="EN-US">,</span>有<span lang="EN-US">180</span>块大洋一个月。有时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>祖父母也在<span lang="EN-US">,</span>三代共享天伦之乐。但好景不长<span lang="EN-US">,1937</span>年抗日战争爆发<span lang="EN-US">,</span>日军攻占上海后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>分兵三路直取南京。我们家分三批撤出<span lang="EN-US">,</span>终于在南京大屠杀前逃离了虎口。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">我们逃回了故乡乐平<span lang="EN-US">,</span>在那里只住了一年。<span lang="EN-US">1938</span>年<span lang="EN-US">,</span>父亲受命去萍乡上埠办瓷厂<span lang="EN-US">,</span>先离家赴任了。母亲带着姐姐、我和大绶随后赶去。大经太小<span lang="EN-US">,</span>只好留在老家请祖父母照顾。乐平到萍乡路途遥远<span lang="EN-US">,</span>几乎要横穿整个江西<span lang="EN-US">,</span>只能坐长途汽车<span lang="EN-US">,</span>路况差<span lang="EN-US">,</span>全是黄土<span lang="EN-US">,</span>汽车也陈旧<span lang="EN-US">,</span>开起来不时巅簸<span lang="EN-US">,</span>尘土飞扬<span lang="EN-US">,</span>有时上空还有敌机骚扰。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">我们在上埠住了<span lang="EN-US">6</span>年。家庭成员陆续增加了大绩、大绥、静婉。上埠是个靠瓷器兴旺起来的小镇<span lang="EN-US">,</span>离县城<span lang="EN-US">35</span>里<span lang="EN-US">,</span>群山环抱<span lang="EN-US">,</span>地虽偏僻<span lang="EN-US">,</span>却也山清水秀。大绶从<span lang="EN-US">3</span>岁长大到<span lang="EN-US">9</span>岁<span lang="EN-US">,</span>在那里进上埠小学。许多年后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他重返故地和母校<span lang="EN-US">,</span>拍了照片<span lang="EN-US">,</span>还给我寄来几张。大绶小时候身体结实、活泼、调皮、热情、好动<span lang="EN-US">,</span>深得父母喜爱。由于其他弟弟很小<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他老要跟着我玩。我则嫌他小<span lang="EN-US">,</span>跟着我太累赘<span lang="EN-US">,</span>总想甩开他。他很机灵<span lang="EN-US">,</span>转眼见我不在了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>就赶快追出来<span lang="EN-US">,</span>想甩开他也不太容易。我们常玩的地方是<span lang="EN-US">:</span>在瓷厂看工人干活<span lang="EN-US">,</span>到附近的小河和池塘中玩水<span lang="EN-US">,</span>去戏台广场看戏等等。上埠和附近的村庄都有戏台<span lang="EN-US">,</span>经常请戏班子来演出。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>1944</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">年<span lang="EN-US">,</span>日军侵占了萍乡<span lang="EN-US">,</span>全家开始了由上埠回故乡的千里流亡。由上埠到吉安的几百里路全要靠步行<span lang="EN-US">,</span>要翻越武功山脉的丛山峻岭<span lang="EN-US">,</span>到了吉安才有船可坐。当时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>全家<span lang="EN-US">6</span>姐弟中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>唯一能独立行走的只有大绶。静婉由母亲背着<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大绩、大绥坐在米箩中请人挑<span lang="EN-US">,</span>姐姐和我都在生病<span lang="EN-US">,</span>姐姐睡担架<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我有时坚持不了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>还要父亲背着走。大绶身体结实<span lang="EN-US">,</span>没生病<span lang="EN-US">,</span>又能吃苦<span lang="EN-US">,</span>一个<span lang="EN-US">9</span>岁的小孩能坚持走几百里路确实不容易。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">我们第二次回到了故乡。在回老家的前后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>祖父母相继去世。父亲将老屋“苍堵轩”主动让给二叔，我们借住二祖母家的一幢大房子，有四室二厅加大厨房<span lang="EN-US">,</span>前面有个大院子<span lang="EN-US">,</span>中有花壇<span lang="EN-US">,</span>后面有花园<span lang="EN-US">,</span>种有桃子、桔子等果树<span lang="EN-US">,</span>并有一口深水井。我们兄弟常在花园中玩<span lang="EN-US">,</span>爬树<span lang="EN-US">,</span>摘水果。夏天则常在前院吃晚饭<span lang="EN-US">,</span>饭后搬出竹床来纳凉<span lang="EN-US">,</span>请本家叔叔讲故事<span lang="EN-US">,</span>然后就在竹床上睡觉<span lang="EN-US">,</span>直到半夜<span lang="EN-US">,</span>天凉了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>母亲才一个个地叫醒我们回屋去睡。那时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>父亲在景德镇工作<span lang="EN-US">,</span>不常回家。姐姐常年在外上学。在家里祘我最大<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但有时我也住校<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大绶就是老大了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>成了母亲的有力帮手。我上乐中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他上第一中心小学<span lang="EN-US">,</span>经常随我去玩<span lang="EN-US">,</span>这时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我不会再甩开他了。夏天<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我喜欢到乐安河游泳<span lang="EN-US">,</span>或横渡<span lang="EN-US">,</span>或在竹排下潜泳。他常跟去<span lang="EN-US">,</span>后来也下水了。我也喜欢打篮球<span lang="EN-US">,</span>有时到社会上比赛<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他也跟去呐喊助威。我们打赢了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他比我们还高兴。我还喜欢京剧<span lang="EN-US">,</span>毕业那年<span lang="EN-US">,</span>母亲去南昌看病时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>给我买了一把好胡琴<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大绶也拉着玩。我去北京上学时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>没凖备带走<span lang="EN-US">,</span>考虑上大学后没机会玩了。大绶发现后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>硬把它塞进了我的箱子<span lang="EN-US">,</span>尽管他也很喜欢<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但为了我他还是这样做了。这件事我至今印象深刻。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>1948</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">年<span lang="EN-US">,</span>父亲陪姐姐和我去上海<span lang="EN-US">,</span>全家到乐平汽车站送别。我同大绶朝夕相处的<span lang="EN-US">13</span>年到此结束。这第一次分手到下次见面竟长达<span lang="EN-US">8</span>年之久。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">我上了北大<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他进了乐中。<span lang="EN-US">1951</span>年<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他初中毕业后参军报国<span lang="EN-US">,</span>给我寄了一张学校送别时戴大红花的照片。<span lang="EN-US">1952</span>年<span lang="EN-US">1</span>月<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他奉派赴朝参战时路过北京<span lang="EN-US">,</span>抽空给我打了一个电话<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我甚感突然<span lang="EN-US">,</span>想立即见他<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他说军令紧急<span lang="EN-US">,</span>没有时间了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我们错过了一次近在咫尺的见面机会。后来<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他托人捎来两件礼物<span lang="EN-US">,</span>一只手表<span lang="EN-US">,</span>一双军用皮鞋。当时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我经济情况不好<span lang="EN-US">,</span>这礼物无异雪中送炭。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>1952</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">年<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我去了清华。他在朝鲜前线经受着战争的考验<span lang="EN-US">,</span>那时才<span lang="EN-US">16</span>岁多。我对他十分牵挂<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我们时有书信来往。在信中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他洋溢着乐观的精神和坚定的意志。他还寄来了照片<span lang="EN-US">:</span>在冰天雪地中端着冲锋枪的英姿。后来朝鲜停战<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他安全地回到了祖国。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">1957</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">年春节<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我在阔别<span lang="EN-US">8</span>年之后第一次回郑州探亲<span lang="EN-US">,</span>返北京途中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>在石家庄下车<span lang="EN-US">,</span>与大绶进行了久别后的第一次相聚。那时<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他在铁道兵学校毕业后留校任职<span lang="EN-US">,</span>对我进行了热情的接待。在他的办公室兼卧室内<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他拉起了手风琴<span lang="EN-US">,</span>让我和唱一首苏联歌曲《在乌克兰辽阔的原野上》。这件事至今仍历历在目。同年暑后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我到南京工作<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他则不断地变换工作地点<span lang="EN-US">,</span>走遍了祖国的天南海北<span lang="EN-US">,</span>先在铁道兵<span lang="EN-US">,</span>后在基建兵。在<span lang="EN-US">30</span>多年的军旅生涯中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>培养了待人热情<span lang="EN-US">,</span>工作努力<span lang="EN-US">,</span>学习勤奋<span lang="EN-US">,</span>办事果断<span lang="EN-US">,</span>生活简扑的作风。他提高很快<span lang="EN-US">,</span>受过通令嘉奖<span lang="EN-US">,</span>立过功。我们有过多次见面的机会<span lang="EN-US">,</span>或同去郑州探亲<span lang="EN-US">,</span>或他多次来访南京。他说他对南京很有感情<span lang="EN-US">,</span>因为这是他的出生地。我陪他畅游了六朝古都的中山陵、玄武湖、长江大桥等名胜<span lang="EN-US">,</span>还去过他出生的鼓楼医院。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">上世纪七十年代<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他调到北京煤炭部工作<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我们见面的机会更多了。<span lang="EN-US">1978</span>年<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我陪本琼赴京就医，托朋友给阜外医院和<span lang="EN-US">301</span>医院的院长、主任写了信<span lang="EN-US">,</span>请大绶联系落实。后本琼住进了阜外医院<span lang="EN-US">,</span>前后一个多月<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我提前回南京了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>一切请大绶照顾。他经常去医院探望<span lang="EN-US">,</span>关怀备至。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">大绶定居北京后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>那里逐渐形成了我们家郑州以外的第二中心。他和秋芬对父母很尽孝道。母亲去世后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>那里成了父亲郑州以外生活最长的地方。父亲先后<span lang="EN-US">7</span>次到京<span lang="EN-US">,</span>过得非常愉快<span lang="EN-US">,</span>留下了许多珍贵的照片和诗篇。大绶作了一件对全家很有意义的工作<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他趁父亲健在<span lang="EN-US">,</span>记录了他老人家的许多重要谈话<span lang="EN-US">,</span>包括儒林汪家家史<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他本人的重要经历<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他对人生信条的回答<span lang="EN-US">,</span>对丹甫公《家训》诗的阐述等等。他们对我们众多的姐弟、晚辈和其他亲朋都给了热情接待。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">父母去世后<span lang="EN-US">,</span>为了纪念双亲<span lang="EN-US">,</span>继续保持大家庭的密切联系<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大绶做了许多工作。父母亲纪念集第一版《回忆与怀念》<span lang="EN-US">,</span>第二版《陶瓷生涯》<span lang="EN-US">,</span>主要的组稿、编辑、印刷、发放等工作都是他做的。在我同他的合作过程中<span lang="EN-US">,</span>了解他对此非常负责<span lang="EN-US">,</span>精益求精<span lang="EN-US">,</span>倾注了对父母的一往深情。对全家<span lang="EN-US">1997</span>年、<span lang="EN-US">2002</span>年和即将到来的<span lang="EN-US">2005</span>年的大团聚<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他都是积极的支持者和组织者之一。他还不时向乐平、景德镇等地的报刊<span lang="EN-US">,</span>撰写或提供介绍儒林家风和纪念父母等方面的文章<span lang="EN-US">,</span>产生了积极的影响。他在中央电视台春节特别节目中介绍了我们家大团聚的情况<span lang="EN-US">,</span>影响更为广泛。 <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3">大绶一贯工作勤奋<span lang="EN-US">,</span>事业心很强。他的工作时间在我们姐弟中是最长的。<span lang="EN-US">1995</span>年退休后发挥余热达<span lang="EN-US">8</span>年之久<span lang="EN-US">,</span>工作劲头不减<span lang="EN-US">,</span>主编了多本书籍<span lang="EN-US">,</span>获得了“全国报业先进经营管理者工作者”的嘉奖。现在不工作了<span lang="EN-US">,</span>仍笔耕不辍<span lang="EN-US">,</span>经常有文章发表，他的文集又将问世。在这方面<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他对我也很有帮助。我读书虽不少<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但写得不多<span lang="EN-US">,</span>写了也不积极发表。他不只一次将我的诗文推荐给乐平报或有关出版社。我的那本小诗集《岁月诗抄》也是在他的鼓励下编印出来的。 （<span lang="EN-US">2005</span>年<span lang="EN-US">7</span>月）<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></span></p>
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